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Badprop

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Saying goodbye's
« on: August 18, 2007, 07:14:48 am »
We are of to Spur to say our good bye's to the in laws.  It dawned on them last week one of us may not come back and we had to come for dinner 3 times this week.  I feel so sorry for them.  They are even talking that if we come back with no job they will help us set up a business here.

We on the other hand said if we don't get a job we are coming back to pack and going in Feb and not coming back again.  They are supportive but it is hart breaking to see the tears in their eyes.   Taking lots of tissues with...
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Offline Rhodan

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Re: Saying goodbuys
« Reply #1 on: August 18, 2007, 07:29:29 am »
I hate goodbye's.  :(

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« Reply #2 on: August 18, 2007, 09:13:29 am »
It is really heartbreaking and sad to say goodbye but at least your family is supportive, and that is the main thing.
When i said goodbye to my family i just didn't want to let go of them but I know things are for the best  :-\

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Re: Saying goodbye's
« Reply #3 on: August 18, 2007, 09:21:25 am »
 :gl: Badprop. Not fun thing to do.

Oooi, we gonna miss the Spur.

Think I may miss the Spur more than some of the inlaws...? >:D



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« Reply #4 on: August 18, 2007, 11:34:30 am »
Badprop, I know exactly what you are going through.  :'(. From now until the time you get on that plane it is just  going to be the one goodbye after the next. My heart goes out to you! Let me know when you are here. Maybe we can have a chat.  :gl: with this final stretch! And I'll be holding thumbs for those job offers. I am pretty confident that either one of you (or even both) will get a job offer. How long will you be here in NZ for the job search?



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« Reply #5 on: August 18, 2007, 11:51:19 am »
It wasn't that bad...  :) They are still holding onto the hope that we will come back.  We will be there for 3 weeks, Eilleen.  Have you started testing the reds already?  We will have to get together and speed test some >:D

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« Reply #6 on: August 18, 2007, 12:12:58 pm »
Not yet. 3 weeks is long enough to fit in a speed testing event!!!  :2funny:

Will you come more towards my kneck of the woods?



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Re: Saying goodbye's
« Reply #7 on: August 19, 2007, 09:23:47 am »
it is difficult, but what can we do?

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« Reply #8 on: August 19, 2007, 09:52:01 am »
Yes Nolan, but I also believe that one should go through it. It is part of the whole immigration experience. And as with everything else in life, you need to take the good with the bad.

But at the end of the day, when all was said and done, it doesn't make it any easier on any one of us.

 :gl: with all those sad moments. We'll be thinking of you!

See you soon in this land of rainbows!!!



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« Reply #9 on: August 19, 2007, 10:16:09 am »
Hi Eilleen

It all will depend on how the job hunting is going if we will stay in Auckland for the whole time.  But if I am in your neighbourhood I will make sure to let you know!  Didn't you forget something in Auckland that you need to go and fetch?   :whistle:

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« Reply #10 on: August 19, 2007, 10:18:33 am »
I'm pretty sure I can think of something. Just pop online and tell us once you are here. My sister lives in AKL and maybe she can babysit for a while  :whistle:



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Re: Saying goodbye's
« Reply #11 on: August 19, 2007, 11:13:22 am »
 :clap: :clap: Will do. O0

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« Reply #12 on: August 19, 2007, 03:40:53 pm »
Badprop so sorry you have to go through that. It is difficult and I think even more so if your family is not that supportive. Having said that I am half envious that it is not us saying our goodbyes already.
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« Reply #13 on: August 19, 2007, 11:28:13 pm »
Don't say goodbye, just say, "see y'all later"... later can mean any length of time! ;)

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« Reply #14 on: December 16, 2007, 12:00:34 pm »
Saying goodbuy is soooooo sad.....very emotional and traumatizing to think back :'(, but be strong....it's worth it. O0