Hi Minette and welcome... good luck with the process. You will find a lot of support here. As you can see we are not a shy bunch here, we ask you in and out cause that makes it easier to help you. Right Didi? 
Oh, no worries guys - I've already come to know you all over the last few days while reading all the posts! This really is a very good site and I'm glad that I've finally "formally" introduced myself!
Some more info on my little family: Rick is in IT - has about 15 years experience and has been doing Java for the last few years. He's a very clever boytjie! He's got lots of experience, but does not have any degrees. I was in IT myself for 8 years (after studying advertising - don't even ask

). I gave all that up though about two years ago and started my own business - go look at
www.thelittleherbcottage.co.za and
www.herbsonline.co.za for more about what I've been keeping myself busy with (except of course for raising my little girl!) It's been really awesome as I've been able to do what I really, really love and was able to have my baby with me from the word go. I'd really be most happy to do the same kind of thing over there as I'm not keen at all to go back to the IT grindstone...
Currently we don't quite know where to settle, all depends on where the job takes us I guess. I'm doing some research on all the major city centres as that is probably where the best chance of emplyment would be. I must admit I hope it is not Auckland, simply to be able to cash in on those extra 10 points! To tell the truth though, I'd not mind at all staying somewhere "rural" and starting my own little herb farm!! Maybe somewhere close to a city so hubby can transport in each day?
I still have lots of questions, even after reading the posts and being a total internet junkie for the last week or so, so be on the lookout for some more Q's soon!