Hi and welcome ZuTiMa, and hello everyone else. We also decided on NZ because of it being family orientated, once we had researched the country, we absolutely fell in love. My DH left yesterday, arrived at 12:30 (SA time) today, so feeling very lost at the moment. Our 2 boys and I are going to join him in 1 December. I am trying very hard to stay focussed on the end goal - still a little hard though. I am sure it will get better!!! Anyway... when are you guys thinking of going over? What do you and your wife do? Sorry if you have already discussed this - its been rather hectic here the last 2 weeks, and I havent been on the sight much.