I must say that I can't stand swearing. Drives me up the walls. I'm not talking about the odd *** but some of the kiwis can 'regtig lelik praat'!! Heard a couple of kids using the f word IN FRONT OF THEIR PARENTS!! Something else that is strange is that in SA we were able to mute out the swear words when watching a movie - this way I did not have to hear it AND the kids did not pick it up either. There does not seem to be this option on Sky TV here??

So now when my OH wants to watch Die Hard the whole house has to be evacuated.

I am keeping a very careful eye on my son because lately he's been saying Oh my G*d - very popular expression over here and a complete no-no in our house. However it only took one very good talking to by my OH and he hasn't uttered that again so hopefully it's thing of the past. To me when a person swears it almost inevitably makes me think they don't have the education or intellect to know better. The other day at work I asked a girl if she wanted me to get her a dictionary so she can learn to express herself better - not the best way to go about it but she didn't swear for the rest of the day

. I have to learn to be more tactful.
