Yes NZ definitely needs immigrants. I don't think anybody disputes that. I think most people will however agree that, if they don't pick Saffers, they can get them from somewhere else. So I still count myself Blessed to be here.
Because of my obesity and "bokbaardjie" I could easily be stereotyped as a boer from the Vrystaat. I recently walked into a barber shop in Wellington, a very crude (I believe the correct word is "Bogan") barber full of ugly navy tattoos (not Maori type tattoos which I can still appreciate to a certain extent) sat me down and asked me how I wanted my haircut - the moment I opened my mouth he replied in a very loud voice:
"J$%* (name of God)!!! The moment I saw you, I could tell you are a f@#$%n Yaaarpie!!" I was quite taken back with this and needless to say the rest of the haircut process was a bit uncomfortable

Although he does a very good haircut, he unfortunately lost one patron!
When I got back to the office, I told my boss of the experience - and he responded with shock and horror, telling me that the barber was obviously a ***! My boss thought it was very presumptuous of the barber to make such a conclusion, telling me that if I did not open my mouth, he would see me as just one of his Southland farming cousins (= Vrystaat boer?) who eat a lot of meat! (I took that as a huge compliment - if you understand the inclusiveness of the Southlanders!) In other words I could just as well have been a Southlander!
So from my experience, you get the Bogans who complain about the immigrants taking their jobs, but those same bogans are not willing to actually work in those same said jobs. And you get the kiwi who accepts you regardless. And luckily I have met far more accepting kiwis as opposed to bogans. I also found that hostility is generally directed more towards the Asians than the Europeans.
My experience could be totally different from others as I have lived in Wellington where the majority of people are not born here but merely "passing" through for experience in Government sector jobs. That includes kiwis - so you tend to find a lot more tolerant people in this city. I have heard of certain North Island kiwis who, after living in Christchurch for nearly eight years, still feel unwelcome there. So it differs from city to city.
But one thing I did notice - As different as we are from the kiwis - We actually very similar - Just think about it!
You get the Auckland (Jo'burg?) "attitude" vs the possibly Wellington/Christchurch attitude (Cape Town/Durban?) . There are jokes going around about the Southland/Taranaki farmers (Vrystaters?). Think of the Speights advertisement on TV with the young city slicker boys meeting up with the rough silent farmer - that could just as well have been an add with Saffer city slickers and a Saffer farmer! Right down to the point of opening the farm gates and chasing sheep!! (I opened plenty when I was a child and chased sheep!). We are even similar to the point of complaining about immigrants!! Maybe for opposite reasons, but complaining still. Who works on the mines nowadays and who sits in the streets and complains?
I remember back in good old SA, when I worked with some NGO's in the townships, how I complained with the locals about the influx of Nigerians/Kenyans/Somalians and how I would be rude to them. So maybe this whole rudeness thing is just karma hitting back at me?
