Hi all!
My 2cents worth......if I may? And I have to add, that this is all personal - do not want to step on any toes....

after just joining this forum. We as a family have been blessed to have been given the chance to live in OZ, we are currently in Perth - which is soooooo different from Cape Town, being Capetonians one gets used to seeing Mountains and loads of green, I find Perth to be somewhat flat, dry and baron. I have meet THE most amazing SA families here in Perth, a lot of them very home-sick and verlaang baie. Yes, if you are in the mining business, you are very blessed, I need to see green open spaces, which I miss terribly, I have also been told by friends who have passed through NZ and by my hubby who has been twice for a LSD, that the Kiwi's have a more 'inviting' approach to immigrants....

?? In the year and a half that we have been here in OZ, should I not make an effort to greet my neighbors, I will never get a wave or a smile -

that is soul destroying, of course they can greet whom they want...and one should not take it personally, but there tends to be a lot of 'clickyness', I am sure that happens all over the world. Other States in OZ may be different, so I can not speak for them. NZ is so much smaller, so to me, a lot personal....more cozy so to speak, and of course the shear beauty of the place has won our hearts!

that age old saying 'each for his own' is so true, we need to follow our hearts as too were we think our 'niche' in life may lie......we hope that our move to NZ is everything we hoped for......after all....it will be our LAST!

The saddest thing about leaving SA and your beloved family and friends is our HISTORY......we have to start all over again....heck, wish I was 20 years younger now......

Will have a lot of catching up to do once there!
Kiwiwannabe family