Ok, so here goes why Kiwi K and I are leaving SA. In 1999 when I was still a student, I visted NZ for 2-3 months, and fell in love with the country. I never though about leaving SA and living in NZ. My hubby on the other hand, has always known that SA is not the country where he needs to be for life. He always though that Canada was where we needed to be! He has though about this for years! We originally came from EL, which is still very low with crime. You feel so safe there. So you could say that I was sheltered! Yip!
Then in 2005, about 4 weeks after we married, DH got a job offer in JHB. WAKE UP CALL FOR ME!!!!!!!!!!!!. I had to say in my heart that "JHB WILL BE HOME!", and gave myself no choice. It is now three years down the line, and I have admitted to myself that I really do hate this place. We do live in a very secure suburb, so are glad about that.
Oct last year DH, suddenly asked me if I would like to live in NZ? I immediately said yes, as it is SOOOOOOO beautiful. Then I had all the butterflies, and thoughts of "WHAT HAVE I JUST AGREED TO?". We decided not to look back, and take each step very actively. He had been thinking about NZ for two years, but knew that the time was not right, so did not speak to me about it!
It was only after the decistion that I found out how bad the politics and crime really are. We don't watch TV, so never see the news. Now I am sooooo glad that we are going. We have not started a family, (was supposed to be planned for this year)! We want to give our children an inheritance that they cannot squander - a first world citizenship!!