Hi Expat, I assume by you saying good night, you are still in land of 'melek and money'? Whitby is very nice, even better in the new parts down near Pauatahanui. Yes, wife and I commute to and from Wellington daily. I drop her off in Willis Street and my office is on the foreshore in Petone. I do spend most of my working day and week in Porirua, as I look after a community paper in Porirua. The distance from home to Wellington is about the same distance I used to travel in JHB, around 25 kms. We lived in Sydenham and I worked in Kyalami Office Park. There it took me close to an hour each way (quite often much more than that). Here, if the traffic is heavy, maybe 40 minutes. The normal time form home to centre city would be around 20 to 25 minutes. Porirua is normally around a degree or two higher than Wellington. The beauty is that you are out of the city, but not far from anything. Kapiti Coast up the road. We take our dogs for walks at Queen Elizabeth Park (a massive public park with beaches etc) and that is only 20 minutes up the road, driving the coastal road State Highway 1 right alongside the sea. It is beautiful to say the least. Wairarapa (wine estates and farming) is a 45 minute drive away through the Haywards and over the Rimutaka Hill. As far as Saffers go, most seem pretty friendly whether greeted in English or Afrikaans. Some probably just want to get away and forget SA ever existed. I am not adverse to having a bit of a gathering with Saffers, just didn't come here to be a moaner or a "when we", so avoid that like the tstetse fly, or is that the plague? If NZ is kind enough to take us in, my feeling is I will give it my all. My comment has been that it takes 5 years to become a citizen, so each year my springbok jersey (supporters) goes 20% black. After 5 years it will be completely black with a silver fern on it and say Kia Ora Aotearoa. No. seriously, was forced out of Zambia in 1960's, forced out of SA 1990's, would rather give my allegiance and support to the country I live in. But, one will NEVER